gh-114914: Avoid keeping dead StreamWriter alive (#115661)

In some cases we might cause a StreamWriter to stay alive even when the
application has dropped all references to it. This prevents us from
doing automatical cleanup, and complaining that the StreamWriter wasn't
properly closed.

Fortunately, the extra reference was never actually used for anything so
we can just drop it.

Lib/asyncio/streams.py

@@ -201,7 +201,6 @@ class StreamReaderProtocol(FlowControlMixin, protocols.Protocol):
             # is established.
             self._strong_reader = stream_reader
         self._reject_connection = False
-        self._stream_writer = None
         self._task = None
         self._transport = None
         self._client_connected_cb = client_connected_cb
@@ -214,10 +213,8 @@ class StreamReaderProtocol(FlowControlMixin, protocols.Protocol):
             return None
         return self._stream_reader_wr()
 
-    def _replace_writer(self, writer):
+    def _replace_transport(self, transport):
         loop = self._loop
-        transport = writer.transport
-        self._stream_writer = writer
         self._transport = transport
         self._over_ssl = transport.get_extra_info('sslcontext') is not None
 
@@ -239,11 +236,8 @@ class StreamReaderProtocol(FlowControlMixin, protocols.Protocol):
             reader.set_transport(transport)
         self._over_ssl = transport.get_extra_info('sslcontext') is not None
         if self._client_connected_cb is not None:
-            self._stream_writer = StreamWriter(transport, self,
-                                               reader,
-                                               self._loop)
-            res = self._client_connected_cb(reader,
-                                            self._stream_writer)
+            writer = StreamWriter(transport, self, reader, self._loop)
+            res = self._client_connected_cb(reader, writer)
             if coroutines.iscoroutine(res):
                 def callback(task):
                     if task.cancelled():
@@ -405,7 +399,7 @@ class StreamWriter:
             ssl_handshake_timeout=ssl_handshake_timeout,
             ssl_shutdown_timeout=ssl_shutdown_timeout)
         self._transport = new_transport
-        protocol._replace_writer(self)
+        protocol._replace_transport(new_transport)
 
     def __del__(self, warnings=warnings):
         if not self._transport.is_closing():