bpo-41100: Support macOS 11 and Apple Silicon (GH-22855)

Co-authored-by:  Lawrence D’Anna <lawrence_danna@apple.com>

* Add support for macOS 11 and Apple Silicon (aka arm64)
   
  As a side effect of this work use the system copy of libffi on macOS, and remove the vendored copy

* Support building on recent versions of macOS while deploying to older versions

  This allows building installers on macOS 11 while still supporting macOS 10.9.

Lib/test/test_bytes.py

@@ -1036,6 +1036,7 @@ class BytesTest(BaseBytesTest, unittest.TestCase):
             c_char_p)
 
         PyBytes_FromFormat = pythonapi.PyBytes_FromFormat
+        PyBytes_FromFormat.argtypes = (c_char_p,)
         PyBytes_FromFormat.restype = py_object
 
         # basic tests